can tahan?

refining process never is easy.

each time you think that you have solved your problems, your footholds, your issues, and that they are no longer there which will make us jump for joy....

and at the most idiotic time, you find that no, they are far from being addressed.

we need GOD.

HE's.refining. us. can tahan not?

and sometimes i feel this refining process take place when we have annoying people.
or rather, people or traits that annoy and irritate us. or even make us angry.

it is always said that we are our worst enemy....
we see the fault in others, but not ourselves.


how can it be that i am liddat too??
no... i am faultless...
i have all the right to point out your mistakes, but me? having those same mistakes??? RIDICULOUS!!!!that's an insult!


sometimes we tend to think this way.....

people around you that annoy you greatly?

"he should be doing this!"
"she should have done it this way..."
"i don't understand why must you always be like that!"
"look what i have done for you, what sacrifices i have made for you. and ask yourself what you have done for me?"


familiar?

why is it familiar?

is it coz we heard it from people around us??

why is it not because it is we ourselves who think like that too?

when we see the fault of others, guess we should just ask, ponder, reflect, contemplate the question why we get frustrated or pissed in the forst place...

is it coz we ourselves are liddat too?????

it's not gonna be easy.